Keep it safe, friendly, fun and productive: Engage respectfully with others while answering questions and participating in technical discussions, even when disagreements arise. Do not threaten, stalk, insult, victimize, or intimidate anyone, nor incite others to engage in such behavior. Use the “Report” option to flag abuse in posts, comments, or replies.
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Help and support the community: This community is a resource for sharing knowledge and helping others. As a general rule, contributions should be to benefit the community. Excessive self‑promotional content without participation (e.g. such as answering questions, offering guidance, or contributing to discussions) is considered spam. This is also not an official Microsoft support channel; and any employee views are personal and do not represent Microsoft. For official support, open a ticket.
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No solicitations: We encourage members to share in‑depth knowledge of the product and integrated Partner products. Contributions must be free of promotional content, and sales activity is prohibited. This includes market research, customer discovery, or paid product validation. Applies to posts in the subreddit and unsolicited direct messages to individuals.
Works well
A deep dive write-up of a production SQL Server problem you solved, with the actual queries and settings, and no product link anywhere
Answering other members' questions in the comments until you are a familiar name, which is exactly the participation the rules ask for before sharing your own content
A technical comparison or benchmark of native SQL Server features, like indexing or query tuning, shared as knowledge rather than as content marketing
A news or resource share about Azure SQL, Fabric, or SQL Server on Linux, framed for discussion instead of promotion
A candid lessons-learned post about a migration or outage, written as a practitioner sharing experience with the community
Avoid
Posting a sales pitch or product announcement with a signup link, which the “No solicitations” rule removes
Running market research, customer discovery, or paid product validation threads, all named as prohibited in rule 3
Sending unsolicited direct messages to members, which rule 3 explicitly forbids
Dropping links to your own content without ever answering questions or joining discussions, which counts as spam under “Help and support the community”
Treating the subreddit like a free Microsoft support ticket queue, since the rules say it is not an official support channel
Getting into insults or personal attacks during a technical disagreement, which trips “Keep it safe, friendly, fun and productive”
What r/SQLServer Is For
This community describes itself as everything you need to know about Microsoft SQL, from Azure to Fabric, and from on-premises to Linux. It is a place for news, resources, and a community of users ready to answer questions. The people posting here are SQL Server users, developers, and admins who want practical help with real database problems, plus discussion about Microsoft's data platform. It is a knowledge-sharing space first, and the rules say plainly that contributions should benefit the community. If your product helps people build, run, or manage SQL Server workloads, the readers you want are here, but they come here to learn and to get unstuck, not to be sold to.
Rules That Matter Before Posting
Three rules decide whether a marketing-adjacent post survives here. “Keep it safe, friendly, fun and productive” asks everyone to engage respectfully, even in disagreements, and to use the “Report” option for abuse. “Help and support the community” is the one that governs promotion: contributions should benefit the community, and excessive self-promotional content without participation, such as answering questions, offering guidance, or contributing to discussions, is considered spam. “No solicitations” goes further and bans promotional content and sales activity outright, and it specifically names market research, customer discovery, and paid product validation as prohibited, including in unsolicited direct messages. The rules also make clear this is not an official Microsoft support channel, so do not pose as support or promise fixes on Microsoft's behalf.
What To Post
A good post here is an in-depth, genuinely useful piece of knowledge about SQL Server or the wider Microsoft data platform, shared with no strings attached. If you are a founder, the safest path is to participate first: answer questions, offer guidance, and contribute to discussions, as the rules describe. Then, when you do share your own content, make sure it teaches something concrete, like a query pattern, a performance approach, or a lesson from running the product in production. Keep the promotional content out of it entirely, because rule 3 says contributions must be free of it. Write like a practitioner sharing experience, not a company sharing a landing page, and keep every exchange respectful even when someone disagrees with your take.
What To Avoid
Sales pitches, market research, customer discovery, and paid product validation all get removed under “No solicitations”, and the rules extend that ban to unsolicited direct messages, so do not DM members your pitch. Excessive self-promotion without participating is spam under “Help and support the community”, which means dropping your link and vanishing is the classic removal pattern. Being disrespectful, threatening, insulting, or intimidating breaks “Keep it safe, friendly, fun and productive”. Finally, avoid positioning yourself as an official Microsoft support source, because the community says it is not one.
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Can I share a blog post about how we solved a SQL Server problem?
Not directly. Rule 3, “No solicitations”, requires contributions to be free of promotional content and bans sales activity. A helpful article with no pitch can be fine once you are an active participant, but a post that funnels people to your product will be removed.
Can I answer questions and mention my tool works with SQL Server?
Yes, if you are genuinely answering as a community member and not pitching. The rules encourage sharing in-depth knowledge of the product and integrated Partner products. Skip the pricing page and the sales link.
Can I post a survey asking DBAs how they handle backups?
No. Rule 3 names market research, customer discovery, and paid product validation as prohibited, in posts and in unsolicited direct messages. Ask in communities that allow it instead.
Is a one-time launch post for my SQL Server tool okay?
Not on its own. Rule 2 makes it conditional: you need real participation, like answering questions and contributing to discussions, before sharing your own stuff. Self-promotion without participation is treated as spam.
Is this an official Microsoft support channel?
No. The rules state this is not an official Microsoft support channel, and official help means opening a support ticket with Microsoft.