Posts: Parents and Guardians Only: Posting is only for Legal Parents and Guardians. This includes step-parents, adoptive parents, and long-term partners. It does not include relatives, sitters, nannies, or other acquaintances. A note on [Parentification](https://www.newportacademy.com/resources/mental-health/parentification/) of siblings - this is a kind of neglect, not a type of parenting. Non-Parents should utilize the subreddit [Wikis](https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/wiki/index/) for a variety of resources for all.
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Posts and Comments: Please Be Kind: We want to avoid participating in ways that are **intentionally** rude, mean, or belittling of experiences or lifestyles. Please check the tone of the content before replying - light content doesn't need deep analysis, avoid making light of serious situations. Hate speech or bigotry will result in an immediate ban. Avoid sealioning - arguing back and forth with no resolution. If you cannot agree to disagree, move on. Report rude content and block users rather than responding.
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Comments: Anyone Can Comment: Please keep in mind that parents and non-parents are both allowed to participate in the comment section. Allowing more people to participate in comments leads to a diverse range of opinions and experiences. Please report rule-breaking comments, and participate in a way that offers encouragement and advice while also creating helpful discourse about the genuine experiences of our members.
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Posts and Comments: No Medical Discussion: **We don’t allow medical discussion**. Medical-related topics can be tricky to discuss online & we don't want to contribute to misinformation, disinformation, or ableism. Please avoid asking the community to help you find medical-related support, advice, or discussion. Temporary bans may occur to avoid users reposting content. Please see the Wikis and Sidebar for alternatives to r/Parenting for medical discussions, advice, or support.
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Posts and Comments: No Legal/CPS Discussion or Advice: We do not allow discussion related to legal or CPS situations. Please see r/legaladvice or r/CPS. If you are worried about child neglect use [this link](https://www.wikihow.com/Make-an-Anonymous-Report-to-Child-Protective-Services) or search "find child services in [my area]." For immediate help see [The Crisis Wiki](https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/wiki/parenting_handbook/parenting_crisis_resources/) or US/CAN Redditors can use [211/org](https://211.org/).
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Posts and Comments: No Sexual Content: If you are concerned about the abuse of a minor, please seek official support immediately. This subreddit is not for discussion about the sexual habits or behaviors about children or adults. We do have the following support resources: [Sexual Health and Support Wiki](https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/wiki/parenting_handbook/sexual_health_and_support/) | [RAINN.org](https://rainn.org/) | [Difficult Discussions](https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/w/Parenting_Handbook/Difficult_Topics)
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Posts: No Images, Linking, Non-Parenting Content: * Pictures or videos of any kind are not allowed. * Links of any kind are considered spam. * All discussions should be text-based. All posts should be parenting-related, about your own children, and **focus on your own parent journey**. See sidebar and wikis for communities where you can post videos, links, or about related but non-parenting situations.
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Posts and Comments: No PSAs, Meta, Call-Outs, Brigading: All posts should be formatted to be advice and discussion-based posts. Focus on your own parenting experience. * PSAs spread misinformation, cause unnecessary worry, & feel like scolding. Use official sources for recalls. * Meta-content (about sub, users, mods) should be directed to Modmail. * Open-letters, call-outs, "I see/hear you", style content is not allowed. * No screenshots or linking of other subs. No tagging users.
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Posts and Comments: Automatic Perma-Ban and Spam Notice: We cannot list every type of content that is prohibited. We hope previous rules explanations are sufficient to explain what content is **allowed**. Do not post surveys, studies, petitions, interview requests, off-site invites, self-promotion, market research, fundraising/begging, crowdsourcing, soliciting feedback, blogs, vlogs, influencer content, articles, parent-led inventions, AMAs, AI/LLM produced, or similar content. Violations result in a permanent ban. Not eligible for appeal.
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Check out Wikis, MegaThreads, and Highlighted Content!: **Mods may remove content that doesn't fit the spirit of the subreddit.** * See [Wiki Index](https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/wiki/index/) for resources collected & organized **specifically for the community of r/Parenting by moderators**. * Highlighted posts and MegaThreads are pinned to the top of the feed. See them for weekly, seasonal, or important Mod Announcements. * As always, use Modmail to communicate with Mods.
Works well
A text-only post from a legal parent asking for advice on a specific parenting challenge, like sleep training or toddler tantrums, with no links and no mention of any product.
A text-only post sharing a genuine personal parenting experience and asking the community how they handled a similar situation.
A comment from a founder who is also a parent, offering encouragement and practical advice on someone else's parenting question, with no links or self-promotion.
Avoid
Do not post surveys, studies, petitions, interview requests, off-site invites, self-promotion, market research, fundraising, blogs, vlogs, influencer content, articles, parent-led inventions, AMAs, AI or LLM produced content, or similar content.
Do not include any links, images, pictures, or videos in your posts.
Do not post if you are not a legal parent or guardian.
Do not ask for or share medical advice, medical discussion, or medical support.
Do not discuss legal situations or CPS matters.
Do not post sexual content or discuss the sexual habits or behaviors of children or adults.
What r/Parenting Is For
This community is a place to discuss the ins and outs and ups and downs of child rearing, from pregnancy through the teenage years. People come here to get advice on topics like potty training, breastfeeding, sleep, and whether something their kid does is normal. The rules say posting is only for legal parents and guardians, including step-parents, adoptive parents, and long-term partners. Non-parents can read the wikis and participate in the comment section, but they cannot make posts.
Rules That Matter Before Posting
The rule that matters most for any founder is "Posts and Comments: Automatic Perma-Ban and Spam Notice". It says you cannot post surveys, studies, petitions, interview requests, off-site invites, self-promotion, market research, fundraising, begging, crowdsourcing, soliciting feedback, blogs, vlogs, influencer content, articles, parent-led inventions, AMAs, AI or LLM produced content, or similar content. Violations result in a permanent ban and are not eligible for appeal. The next rule that decides survival is "Posts: No Images, Linking, Non-Parenting Content". It says links of any kind are considered spam and all discussions should be text-based. The rule "Posts: Parents and Guardians Only" also matters because it limits posting to legal parents and guardians, and explicitly excludes relatives, sitters, nannies, and other acquaintances. The rule "Posts and Comments: No Medical Discussion" bans all medical discussion, and "Posts and Comments: No Legal or CPS Discussion or Advice" bans all legal and CPS discussion.
What To Post
If you are a founder who is also a legal parent or guardian, you can post a text-only discussion about your own parenting journey, as long as it is genuinely about parenting and not about your product. The rules require posts to be text-based, parenting-related, about your own children, and focused on your own parent journey. A good post asks the community for advice or shares a genuine parenting experience in plain text, with no links, no images, and no mention of your business. If you are not a legal parent or guardian, you should not post here at all, but you can still read the wikis and leave encouraging comments that offer advice and create helpful discourse.
What To Avoid
Avoid anything that looks like promotion, research, or outreach. The "Posts and Comments: Automatic Perma-Ban and Spam Notice" rule bans surveys, studies, petitions, interview requests, off-site invites, self-promotion, market research, fundraising, begging, crowdsourcing, soliciting feedback, blogs, vlogs, influencer content, articles, parent-led inventions, AMAs, AI or LLM produced content, or similar content, and violations result in a permanent ban with no appeal. Avoid posting links, images, pictures, or videos, because the "Posts: No Images, Linking, Non-Parenting Content" rule says links of any kind are considered spam. Avoid medical discussion, because the "Posts and Comments: No Medical Discussion" rule does not allow it. Avoid legal or CPS discussion, because the "Posts and Comments: No Legal or CPS Discussion or Advice" rule sends those topics elsewhere. Avoid sexual content, because the "Posts and Comments: No Sexual Content" rule bans it. Avoid PSAs, meta posts, call-outs, open letters, screenshots, tagging users, or brigading, because the "Posts and Comments: No PSAs, Meta, Call-Outs, Brigading" rule forbids all of those. Avoid posting if you are not a legal parent or guardian, because the "Posts: Parents and Guardians Only" rule restricts posting to parents and guardians only.
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Can I post a public service announcement about a product recall or safety issue?
No. The "Posts and Comments: No PSAs, Meta, Call-Outs, Brigading" rule explicitly bans PSAs and says they spread misinformation, cause unnecessary worry, and feel like scolding.
Can I post a survey or interview request for my research?
No. The "Posts and Comments: Automatic Perma-Ban and Spam Notice" rule bans surveys, studies, and market research, and violations result in a permanent ban that is not eligible for appeal.
Can I include a link to my blog or product in a post?
No. The "Posts: No Images, Linking, Non-Parenting Content" rule says links of any kind are considered spam.
Can I post here if I am a nanny, babysitter, or relative helping raise a child?
No. The "Posts: Parents and Guardians Only" rule restricts posting to legal parents and guardians, and explicitly excludes relatives, sitters, nannies, and other acquaintances.